I was speaking with my dear cousin yesterday and as she began to explain to me her encounter with an undeserving suitor, the idea struck me. . . the only way that these men will know how to treat a woman is for them to see how there actions are perceived by women and how these actions ultimately make or break ANY relationship. It seems as though our (women's) idea of catering to these men has since backfired and we are now reaping what we or others sowed. I am not saying that chivalry is dead and that there are not good men out here, but for the most part if chivalry isn't dead, it sure as hell is dormant.
For instance, I was speaking with one of my male friends a fews days after my twenty fifth birthday, a milestone if you will. Do you know this dude had the nerve to ask me, and I quote, "Why didn't you call me on YOUR birthday?" You hear that. . .? Yes its the breaks in your mind screeching to a sudden halt. He MUST got me f*cked up. This same person called me the other day after many weeks of no communication and after I did not answer his calls he sent me a text, and I quote once more, "Why didnt you call me before I called you?" Now I know for sure he's got me fucked up. After receiving this lovely text you know I had to call him back like (in the words of my bro BK) HOLD IT! Since when is it customary for the lady to make all the moves? I mean sure I am all for a woman taking charge and grabbing the bull by the horns, but it has come to the point where it seems that maybe these men have grown a little bit too comfortable with this take charge attitude. Comfortable to the point that they actually have the audacity to say the things that this young man said to me.
So, ladies, please help me in my effort to cure this epidemic of bitchassness that is spreading throughout this great nation. Hopefully if we expose the causes and symptons of said "disease" we may all be able to live happily ever after. Until then, these dudes got me fucked up!
